Due to multiple attachments on The Ultimatum: Queer Love exploding, Aussie Chau and Sam Mark were shockingly the last couple standing. That is an amazing sentence when you consider how the point of the show is for one partner to commit. And even though Aussie has gotten down on a knee, things do not look like they have progressed since then. Some reasons make sense (it’s hard to tell Aussie’s homophobic mother) and others don’t (barely any posting as a couple). With all the wildness taking place at the reunion, Sam and Aussie barely got any time to talk about their situation. Now, they’ve basically gone quiet which makes sense on one level given all the toxicity. However, fans do want to connect more with the sole successful pairing of this insane season. It’s why they’re asking, Where Are Aussie And Sam After The Ultimatum: Queer Love?
Where Are Aussie And Sam After The Ultimatum: Queer Love? Taking It Slow

Sam and Aussie are working together and dating again (Instagram).
It seems like Sam and Aussie are working their issues out before they go to the altar. Given that Aussie is still questioning Aussie’s gender identity, this sounds like a very smart plan. According to a Tudum article, Aussie credits Sam with initiating this questioning process. “Yeah, I’ve always felt like I was male since I was a little kid,” Aussie says. “She allowed that space for me to explore and I’m still exploring.” They also say that they have been working on themselves a lot more than rushing to get married. We came first, and then the relationship came second,” Sam tells Tudum. “If it was meant to be, then we’ll come back together, but we put everything in it for our own journeys and healing.”
“We’re slowly getting there, but I just have so much groundwork that I’m doing with my life that that’s kind of taken priority,” Aussie says. We also hear that they have a guest list of sorts for the eventual wedding, and Tiff Der and Vanessa Papa are the only cast members that can expect an invitation. We also have no details from this article or any other explaining how things are going with Aussie’s family.
Where Are Aussie And Sam After The Ultimatum: Queer Love? Keeping It Saussie
Just a little while ago, Aussie and Sam posted a video thanking the fans for the love they sent. A short reel on Aussie’s IG, and they are still together and have their labradorite rock and ring. They also claim that their “Keeping It Saussie” account, where they do their tarot readings, will be back up and running soon. Now that the world has seen how empathetic Sam is and how loved Aussie is, they will likely do very well. And, the online praise for Sam (and a little for Aussie) keeps coming.
There are too many Reddit threads of people gushing over Sam to count. The tide is also turning away from people being frustrated with Aussie for Aussie’s avoidant behavior. It’s good to see that this unconventional couple has shown us the way to grow and thrive through the ultimatum process and that queer love can thrive when given room to grow.