Appearances can be deceiving on The Ultimatum: Queer Love. Aussie Chau, as the oldest member of the cast, came off as a wise, warm presence in the beginning. Since relatively little time was spent on them and partner Sam Mark, it was hard to see signs of trouble. Up until the entry of Mo, Aussie’s friend, in Episode 4, Aussie was getting along great with trial partner Mildred Bustillo. Trouble started from the moment Mo reminded Aussie that they had a lot of trouble with commitment. When Aussie said that Aussie was not interested in being stuck with someone, that set off alarm bells for Mildred. Soon after, Mildred was voicing a lot of anger about Aussie’s unwillingness to help around the house. It doesn’t look good for this couple but let’s find out about The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Aussie.
The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Aussie: Zodiac, Activism, Myers-Briggs, Gender Identity
It should come as a surprise to no one from their accent that Aussie is from Down Under. Because she and Sam met and connected through Tarot, Aussie is open about their zodiac and provides a few more detailsm, too. Aussie’ sun sign is Gemini, which is what most people think of as their zodiac sign. Aussie’s moon sign is Scorpio and Aussie (preferred pronoun is Aussie) has Cancer rising. Appropriately this makes Aussie very difficult to read but also gives Aussie a magnetic personality. According to Aussie’s Instagram, Aussia was a big supporter of former Democratic presidential candidate Marianne Williamson and California Representative Mark Tamano. Aussie is an ENFP Myers-Briggs type, which explains Aussie’s outgoing and feeling self. On the show, Aussie wonders if Aussie is transgender, but Aussie appears to still be figuring that out.
According to some Reddit threads, fans discuss that “Aussie” is actually Aussie’s pronoun. Other threads talk about 42-year-old Aussie being referred to as “she”, although this might be misgendered. Aussie does not have any other social media, but she posts a lot of content about dealing with narcissists on Instagram. Hopefully this isn’t a direct reference to any of Aussie’s The Ultimatum: Queer Love cast members. Aussie does not have any pictures of Sam or Mildred on Aussie’s account, and Aussie does not follow or followed by either Sam or Mildred. Aussie references growing up as a people pleaser, and notably there is no information about Aussie’s family.
The Ultimatum: Queer Love‘s Aussie: Is Aussie In A Relationship or Single?
As we’ve alluded to, Aussie currently does not seem to be in a relationship with anyone. We also see Aussie apparently leaving her trial marriage with Mildred in the preview for the next batch of episodes. It just seems like Aussie finds it hard to be criticized or be put in a situation where they have to take accountability. Also, remember that Aussie was not comfortable with the idea of being “stuck with one person.” All in all, while Aussie seems to be a wonderful friend and person, Aussie’s avoidance issues make Aussie very, very hard to get close to. Mildred pointed this out by blasting Aussie to her ex, Sam, for Aussie’s lack of communication and complete conflict avoidance.
Although Aussie felt shyness in wanting to do a reality TV show, she thought it was important to help with the representation of queer love in pop culture. Aussie doesn’t regret being on the show.
Aussie talking about her thoughts on going on Netflix’s reality TV dating show The Ultimatum: Queer Love (Instagram).
