Tiff Der is another example of a character that went from reviled villain to more understood as things progressed on The Ultimatum: Queer Love. Early episodes showed them raging at innocent Sam Mark for not being as caring towards their dog as Tiff expected. Tiff also was called out by partner Mildred Woody for not committing to Mildred until they entered the trial marriage. But after things ended with Sam on a friendly note, Tiff began to point out Mildred’s destructive cycle of behavior. They also began to take accountability for being kind of “an asshole”, in their own words. It might lead to the end of their constant break-up-to-make-up relationship, but the experiment has changed Tiff for the better. Let’s learn more about The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Tiff.
The Ultimatum: Queer Love‘s Tiff: Age, Job, Zodiac Sign, Tattoos, Dogs
Outspoken Tiff is a personal coach and it’s easy to picture them motivating people with lots of force and energy. Thirty-two-year-old Tiff also makes their opinions on basically everything very clear on their podcast, Fweebs, with their friend Kari. For those that don’t know, Fweebs is a way of saying “Friends With Benefits.” Tiff’s Instagram makes it quite clear that they prefer dogs to humans, maybe even extremely so. The dog that receives the most love is Shylo, who was caught up in the middle of the blowup between Sam and Tiff discussed earlier.
Shylo is an advertised headliner at the Queer Love watch parties hosted by Tiff at San Diego’s Gossip Grill, not far from where they live. Tiff loves Zoey, who we met in Mildred’s bio, but Zoey seems to be Mildred’s doggo first. For the record, one of Tiff’s IG posts clarifies that they and Sam are on good terms now.
Because Tiff is constantly in motion, we can see that they have tattoos all over their arms. There is another close to their neck on the right side, and on their left hip. This is even more clear from Tiff’s TikTok. However, it is hard to make out exactly what they are. The right arm appears to feature an hourglass/heart/branches combo while there is some writing on the inside. There is a pinkish ribbon shape near their neck, and some more writing on their hip. The left arm tattoo is some sort of skull motif possibly? One thing that is clear is Tiff’s zodiac sign, which is Aquarius. According to one of their IG posts where they play a game where they make up their own breakup quote, they were born on the 2nd. This means their birthday is February 2, Groundhog Day, not Feb. 7 as reported elsewhere.
The Ultimatum: Queer Love‘s Tiff: Single or Married?
This is an easy one, Tiff is almost certainly single as a pringle. Tiff is very much ringless and is not shy about posting pics getting close to Vanessa Papa of all people. Then we have an entire section on their IG about their Fweebs? And none with Mildred? Honestly, this breakup would be for the best, but we hope Tiff continues to work on themselves while coaching others.
“Her gentle, warm energy gave me a safe space to be myself. She’s so validating,” Tiff said about her trial marriage with Sam.
If Mildred and Tiff did stay together, fans will certainly hope they didn’t give up on couple counseling.