With Love Is Blind Season 4’sseason finale aired, there’s no time left for drama on the show. Us Internet sleuths picked around the King County Official Records Search website to reveal who made it and who didn’t get married. Now fans watched Paul Peden say no to Micah Lussier on their wedding day. However, it was left slightly ambiguous: Are Micah and Paul still together?
Unfortunately the answer for this couple is a pretty hard “no.” Micah set up Paul to answer first, which fans found a total cop out. At the end the finale Paul made it pretty clear he didn’t see a future with Micah. I think for me, it was, like, difficult for me to do.
“I struggled with, at least in terms of envisioing Micah as, like, you know, a mother… It’s just like a nurturing aspect, I think, that some people have. I don’t know, but whenever I tried, I just know that i wasn’t able to see it very clearly,” Paul said at the end of the show, making it pretty clear things are over. “I had to be honest towards myself.”
Paul also said in the finale, “I had a very intense love for Micah, but the part that I dealt with a lot was is love enough? As difficult as it has been for me to envision me marrying her today, it’s equally as difficult to envision marrying her tomorrow, or ten years from now. What I would like to do is learn to be grateful for what we had. And not look back and wonder ‘what if’.”
With online haters focusing attacks on Micah and Irina Solomonova for their atrocious behavior, Paul has mostly dodged criticism. It’s true that Micah and ex soccer player Kwame Appiah both acted inappropriately at the pool party, leading to lots of sympathy for Kwame’s partner and speech language pathologist Chelsea Griffin. Weirdly, we never saw Paul’s reaction, and everyone ignored Paul’s flirtation with Irina at the same party. It usually takes two to wreck an engagement.
Love Is Blind: Are Micah And Paul Still Together? All Signs Say They Broke Up
Criminal defense lawyer Zack Goytowski and Kwame took most of the heat for the boys’ team this week. By contrast, Paul has come off as a quiet dork who seems fairly harmless. He seems happiest with his plants, solitude, and marine life friends. Either Paul finally reached a breaking point with Micah’s behavior, or he ended up being more attracted to someone else.
Irina also had the hots for Paul, but Paul would have had to actively seek her out. We also saw him dither around breaking things off with twice-divorced Amber in the pods after coming to a mutual understanding with Micah. Paul’s decision devastated Amber, so that bridge is probably burnt as well. Some fans suspect Paul had a thing for Micah’s friend Ruby. According to a fan theory, Paul patted her derriere when leaving Micah crying to her mom.
Looking at Paul’s socials gives a clue as to who’s at fault here — or, who Paul believes is at fault. Paul’s IG is almost completely devoid of Love Is Blind content — only one post showing his official headshot and quote. In fact, there’s nothing between November 2, 2021 and March 7th, 2023. Paul’s not a prolific social media user anyway. You can also find Paul’s reply to a female fan calling out Micah’s actions, saying if it had been her husband, there would be papers on the desk. Paul responds with “thank you for your support” and a puppy-eyed emoji. Oh, and he follows Micah’s friend Ruby on IG.
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It seems that Paul stopped trusting Micah, and her giving him the chance to say no suggests that she knows this. Micah also made it no secret Paul isn’t her typical type of a macho jock, which she proceeded to demonstrate by being more flirtatious with Kwame outside the pods.
Micah’s Instagram shows she’s enjoyed traveling a lot in the past year since the show filmed. Meanwhile Paul hasn’t apparently traveled in any of the same locales.