Love Is Blind season 4‘s Amber Wilder made it pretty clear she knows what she wants after two failed marriages and taking her time over the past three years to reflect. In the pods she hit it off with environmental scientist Paul Peden. Unfortunately she’s competing with blonde bombshell and season 4’s resident mean girl Micah Lussier. We won’t spoil what happens to Amber and Paul’s relationship in the pods, and if he proposes until the end of the article. However, heres what fans Love Is Blind fans need to know about flight attendant Amber’s two ex husbands and failed marriages.
Amber Wilder from Love Is Blind season 4 (Instagram).
She also mentioned she married a fool who cheated on her shortly after getting married, but it’s unclear which marriage that was from. She also shared with Paul she would’ve cheated on one of her husbands had they stayed together in an unhappy relationship.
Love Is Blind season 4 cast member Amber Wilder at her flight attendant job (Instagram).
Who Are Amber’s Two Ex Husbands From Past Failed Marriages Before Starring On Love Is Blind Season 4?
Amber Wilder with former partner and Brit Richard Jefferies (Instagram).
Although there’s no definitive proof who Amber, now age 34, was previously married to online, but her Instagram includes lots of pictures of her previous three exes she dated for at least a couple years each. Most exes like to rid every item they have that reminds them of their ex, on top of purging them from their social media. But Amber doesn’t mind keeping up photos of (at least some of) her exes.
Amber with her ex “King Richard” (Instagram).
“A lot of people are pretty shocked. They’re like, ‘Oh, you’ve been married twice? I was just so not appreciated, and I don’t ever want to get to that point again, you know?” Amber said on the show. “I don’t want to have to burn myself out loving somebody just getting scraps in return, I don’t want a repeat of that. So I put time and effort into thinking about what I want for the future and I’m so ready.”
Again, the following guys may have just been boyfriends, but there’s a strong possibility two of them were her ex husbands.
Back in April 2018 Amber celebrated one year (together or married, it’s unclear) the a British chap named Richard Jefferies. Throughout their time together, she would post her missing her “King Richard” while having a long-distance relationship while she worked as a flight attendant flying around the globe, often separated for a month at time. She last posted with Richard in March 2019. The two liked to drink beer at the pubs in London, visited Stonehenge and explored Scotland’s Highlands together.
Amber and Richard back in the day when she lived with him in London (Instagram).
The timeline makes sense that this could likely be Amber’s second husband because she claims she didn’t date anyone serious for three years since her last marriage ended.
Amber’s Other Relationships Before Going On Love Is Blind Season 4
Amber Wilder with ex Robby Storm (Instagram).
The previous serious relationship Amber still kept up on her Instagram profile was with fellow Seattleite Robby Storm. They appear to have had a shorter romance if her first and last post with a guy is indicative of a relationship timeline. Storm and Wilder dressed up as Batman and Cat Woman for Halloween together and liked to watch the Seattle Seahawks play.
Amber and Robby appeared to have dated for a shorter period time based on her Instagram posts (Instagram).
Their first picture together on her timeline was in September 2015 and the last post together was Feb. 7, 2016. It’s less likely Robby and Amber were more than just boyfriend and girlfriend.
Amber and Robby dressed up for Halloween (Instagram).
Before Robby, Amber was in a long-term relationship with a US Army soldier. Her first post in young love with the mystery man was in May 2012. She last posted a picture of her ex in March 2015. The longer relationship with this guy suggest he may have been Amber’s first husband.
Amber with a mystery man who she was together with for at least three years (Instagram).
Amber and her ex used to enjoy watching the Sunday football game together (Instagram).
However, it’s also entirely possible Amber deleted all photos of her two ex husbands, and kept up of three other exes. Amber doesn’t have any wedding pictures with either of her ex husbands still up on her timeline. Warning, spoiler below.
We’ll have to wait to see if Amber still finds love with Paul. Perhaps he’ll have second thoughts with choosing Micah and pursue Amber, just like Zack Goytowski is now pursuing another woman after his first engagement went down in flames.
