The various couples and entanglements on The Ultimatum: Queer Love can take up so much of the spotlight. It takes an outside perspective to inject some reality back into the crazy goings-on, and that’s where the friends come in. It’s very wholesome how each of the participants relies on friends or family to keep them grounded. Even if much of The Ultimatum: Queer Love is a fake charade. While there are some solid contenders, like Mal Wright’s friend Alicia and Aussie Chau‘s friend Mo, by far the realest is Tiff Der’s bestie Natasha Sebastiani. When Natasha told Tiff and her trial wife Sam Mark to hold hands, fans fell in love. Some asked if Sam could leave with Natasha and wondered if that was against the rules. Others campaigned for Natasha to become the host of the show (obviously not, because the show was already shot). Can we answer the burning question on The Ultimatum: Queer Love: Who Is Tiff’s Friend Natasha?
The Ultimatum: Queer Love: Who Is Tiff’s Friend Natasha? FB, TikTok, Cameo, Organizer Job, Family, Tattoos
Natasha with her grandma (Instagram).
Natasha didn’t intend to be famous and seems to be taking a cautious approach to social media. We have found Natasha’s Facebook, where she demonstrates the close connection she has to her abuela and her little cousins. On Natasha’s TikTok she talks about being overwhelmed by the positive responses. She has begun making videos because she can’t respond to all of the messages. She thanks everyone for their wishes, especially since it is Pride Month, and urges them to treat the participants with respect. At the end she gives us a view from the place she was staying in in Italy. A more recent video from Portugal reveals that she is planning a live chat at 11 PM Portugal time on June 6th to discuss her thoughts on the show. Natasha’s Cameo price is $40 USD, which is a fair price to pay for some real talk.
We can see Natasha’s abuela (grandmother) in the background of many of her videos, which means that they travel together. They enjoy bottles of wine, cook meals, or just sit in the sunshine. It is not clear what Natasha does for work, but there is an old Twitter account for Taste, which lists Natasha as an organizer. Taste’s description is “Bi-positive Trans-inclusive queer women’s event produced by Katy Ray & Natasha Sebastiani happening every first Saturday.” The Taste FB group has been quiet, but there was a post in March apologizing for the absence. Could more events be taking place soon in Washington’s DMV district? We can’t find many pictures of Natasha’s tattoos, but we know she has a wing and a compass on her left arm. There appears to be some writing on her right arm but it’s not possible to read it.
The Ultimatum: Queer Love: Who Is Tiff’s Friend Natasha? Host Drama
It could be that the love Natasha is getting has a lot to do with the backlash against The Ultimatum: Queer Love host Joanna Garcia Swisher. The presence of a straight female host on a show all about queer relationships has been hard to swallow from the start. But, Natasha’s directness compared with Swisher going through the motions and not asking tough questions has made Natasha stand out all the more. Here’s hoping she appears during the finale or hosts the reunion!
